On May 22, 1976, he married Marilyn. One minute your operation is routine and then suddenly and without provocation, in the middle of a meeting at work or beer with a friend your heart detonates. Like in the war movies when the sound cuts out and everyone moving around you slows down. We have not made any plans yet. It was truly a beautiful wedding. I lost touch with close friends and a significant 5 year investment. I have always enjoyed college football. With August came long days and not much else. I landed what is still, after two years, my dream job and have met the most wonderful guy. Vincetta Traffas, OSF, 90, of the Sisters. How Aaron really hugged me in church. And you would have absolutely loved him. And in another month, Megans daughter. In rapid fire sequence, these frames continue to play: The phone call I got from Aaron. That walk down the aisle. But today, Michael bought me flowers. A lifetime resident of Sharon, Kan., he was a farmer. Nolan waving his motorcycle wave at Dad the last time, his brow creasing in concern that grandpa wasnt waving back. Last year I was lucky enough to get to know Michaels grandma, briefly, and that loving, wonderful woman had the nerve to worry about me how I would feel, getting close to someone very sick.